Remembering David O. Darling

Each Memorial Day I take time to remember close family members who gave their life during wars that our country fought. I now add another person to this list as I have found out more information about my 3rd Great Uncle David O. Darling.

Hotchkiss, Benjamin, Nancy DarlingDavid was the youngest brother of my 2nd Great Grandmother Nancy Jane Darling who is in the picture above with my 2nd Great Grandfather Benjamin Hotchkiss.

David O. Darling was the youngest son of David Darling and Abigail Whitman and had six sisters and one brother.

David enlisted in the 1st Michigan Volunteers, Company B on July 18, 1861.

David mustered in on July 21 in Jackson, Michigan. He had previously been working as a farm laborer for the Irwin family in nearby Brooklyn, Michigan.

The regiment left Michigan in September to join Hooker’s Brigade in Washington, D.C. where they were to guard railways.

brooklyn michigan, jackson michigan, darling, civil warOn October 4, 1861 David passed away from meningitis. There was a meningitis epidemic that had hit the troops in Washington, D.C. causing the death of many young soldiers. Unfortunately many diseases ravished troops during the Civil War and caused more deaths than those suffered in combat. david darling, national cemetery, civil war, first michiganDavid was buried in the United States Soldiers’ and Airmen’s Home National Cemetery as it is known today. The cemetery had been establish just a few months earlier after the Battle of Bull Run and was the first National Cemetery.

david darling, national cemetery, civil war, first michiganI can only imagine the reaction that the family had to the news that their son and brother had passed away just shortly after he went off to war. It must have been a very hard time for the family.

3rd Great Grandfather, David Darling, Ancestry, Geneaology, Family HistoryThe family has a history of military service. His father David Darling, shown above, had fought in the War of 1823 and his grandfather David Darling had fought in the Revolutionary War.

His only brother, Henry Whitman Darling, enlisted in 1862 after moving to Millersburg, Iowa and served with another of my 3rd Great Uncles. See: Memorial Day Remembrances

Steven


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Benedict or Benedick – Jeopardy!

Sometimes you just need to write about something to get it out of your head.

In this case it is the poor ruling in a recent Jeopardy! match.Jeopardy, alex trebek, game showIn a recent Final Jeopardy they were looking for Who are Beatrice and Benedick?

The clue was something along the lines of what romantic couple had names that both had a meaning of blessed.

Two of the contestants answered Who are Romeo and Juliet? which was definitely wrong. The third contestant answered Who are Beatrice and Benedict? He had crossed out Benedict and wrote it again the same way. This was ruled as being wrong and the contestant, who had won nine previous games, then lost the match based on the bids of the other contestants.

Shakespeare's First Folio, Edmond Malone, Singapore National LibraryThat he was ruled against puzzled me and I had to go back and watch it several times to understand why it was wrong.

We have always been told that spelling does not matter in Final Jeopardy, so why did it matter this time? It came down to Benedick and Benedict not sounding the same, so the two spellings are not phonetically the same.

This made me think about why this was ruled against since he obviously knew the right couple. There are no other couples that even come close to being the same.

1599: A year in the life of William Shakespeare, James ShapiroSeveral thoughts came to mind.

Benedict most likely should have been the spelling at the time, but Shakespeare was notorious for spelling things wrong.

The modern meaning of the word benedick comes from this play.

Benedict is not always pronounced with a ‘T’ at the end. Many times the ‘T’ is silent.

The root word for blessed in Latin is Benedictus which has a ‘T” so Benedict should be an accepted spelling.

Shakespeare A to Z, Charles Boyce, Jeopardy, benedick, benedictI decided to look at one of the standard reference books for Shakespeare.

Here is what Shakespeare A to Z: The Essential Reference to His Plays, His Poems, His Life and Times , and More by Charles Boyce.

Benedick, a common name in medieval England, comes from the Latin Benedictus, meaning ‘blessed’; he is thus appropriately matched with Beatrice (from Beatrix, or ‘she who blesses’). Shakespeare’s character has become so firmly entrenched in the imagination of generations of readers and theatre-goers that his name, sometimes spelled ‘Benedict”, has become a common noun meaning a newly married man who has long been a bachelor.

In the end, the win streak was over for the contestant and Jeopardy! goes on.

I was disappointed this last week when a contestant was not ruled against when the name of a sitting senator was mispronounced. Was this the same person? Does pronunciation matter as much as spelling?

This really brings up an interesting point. Many of the answers are known from memorizing lists of things, and for many there is no deep knowledge about some of the subjects that they simply know facts about.

I could go on and on, but then I may be just be making Much Ado About Nothing.

Steven


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